Archive for November, 2009

A Day in the Life of Interracial Families

// November 16th, 2009 // 1 Comment » // Blended Living

I recently blogged about people staring at us and I kept saying, “What are they staring at???” My little girl told me to get over it because they do it all the time.

It’s true – in the south, it’s a huge issue. We get stared at everywhere … and yes when you’re eating, it’s the worst!

Here is an e-mail I recently received from a friend in Mississippi:

A couple years ago I worked at a liquor store owned by an Indian man. One day he had me run to wal-mart to pick up some things for the store. His daughter, who was about 7 years old, wanted to go with me.

So I’m walking through the store and I notice ppl giving me these looks. They’re looking at me like I’m licking a dirty diaper or something. I mean they look absolutely disgusted. I’m glancing at my clothes and stuff, wondering if maybe I got something in my teeth or hanging out my nose.

I’m going crazy wondering what is wrong with me. Then all the sudden it hit me like a ton of bricks. They thought that girl was my daughter!

It gave me a little insight into what families like yours go through. It was pretty amazing.”

Finally… someone who is able to corroborate what interracial families say all the time – since no one sees life the way we see it, people tend to believe we blow it out of proportion.

We don’t.

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Interracial Children and Social Risks

// November 15th, 2009 // No Comments » // In the News

This article is copied in whole from The Student Operated Press.

After creating an imbroglio because he refused to perform a marriage ceremony for a White woman and a Black man, Louisiana Justice of the Peace Keith Bardwell resigned under pressure. However, his stated reason for denying the couple a marriage license is still perplexing: “There is a problem with both groups accepting a child from such a marriage,” he told the Associated Press. “I think those children suffer, and I won`t help put them through it.”

Let’s see, interracial children could suffer so much that one might become mayor of Washington, D.C. Another multiracial child might grow up to become CEO of the NAACP. One poor kid could develop into another Tiger Woods. And one, heaven forbid, might even become president of the United States. Each person holding those positions is biracial and they have “suffered” all the way to the top.

What Bardwell did not say is that in the South in particular, White men have sexually exploited African-American women for years, dating back to the days of slavery. It`s the liaison between Black men and White women that troubles died-in-the wool racists such as Bardwell.

His home state of Louisiana passed Jim Crow laws requiring separate facilities for African Americans and Whites on railroads and streetcars, ordering racially segregated schools, banning interracial marriage and cohabitation, outlawing dancing between members of different races at social functions and making it illegal for Black and White families to live in the same dwellings. The 1896 Supreme Court ruling in Plessy v. Ferguson, upholding the constitutionality of racial segregation, originated in Louisiana.

In the landmark study “American Dilemma,” Gunnar Myrdal wrote in 1944 about the South`s “fixation on the purity of white womanhood.” Myrdal observed, “The South has an obsession with sex, which helps to make this region quite irrational in dealing with Negroes generally…”

That irrationality is still deep inside such diehards as Bardwell. He is the poster boy for those who argue that even with the election of a Black president, the U.S. is not close to being a post-racial country.
St. Louis License Collector Michael McMillan, a rising political star, learned about Bardwell while watching CNN.

“At first, I thought it was a hoax,” said McMillan, the product of a biracial union. “It was so ridiculous that I thought it couldn`t be true.”

But it was. McMillan added, “Unfortunately, a lot of people hold those views.”

Misgenation laws forbidding interracial unions were enforced in the 13 colonies. They were in effect in 16 states until the Supreme Court overturned them in 1967 as a result and of a White man and his Black wife challenging Virginia law. In Loving v. Virginia, the court ruled, “Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not to marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State.”

Over the years, Americans have developed more tolerant attitudes toward interracial marriages. This may be, in part, because 22 percent of Americans report having a close relative who is married to someone of a different race, according to a 2006 Pew Research Center report titled, “Guess Who`s Coming to Dinner.” For African Americans, the figure is even higher – 37 percent.

In 1987, a Pew Research Center report showed that 48 percent of respondents agreed that it is “all right for blacks and whites to date each other.” By 2003, that figure had risen to 77 percent.

Many high-profile public figures have interracial mates, including Tiger Woods, Halle Berry, Kobe Bryant, Professor Henry Louis Gates, Jr., Diana Ross, Julian Bond, Charles Barkley and Clarence Thomas.

African Americans and Hispanics are more accepting of interracial dating than Whites. Ninety-one percent of Blacks, 90 percent of Hispanics and 71 percent of Whites approve of interracial dating.
There is also a major generational divide on this issue. According to the study, 91 percent of those born after 1976 said such dating is acceptable; only 50 percent of those who reached adulthood during World War II agreed.

In 1970, fewer than 1 percent of all married couples were made up of spouses of a different race. By 2000, that figure had grown to 5 percent, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.

The most common type of interracial couple in 2000 was the White husband and Asian wife, representing 14 percent of all interracial couples. Black husbands and White wives accounted for 8 percent of all interracial couples. In Black-White marriages, 73 percent of the husbands are Black. In 75 percent of Asian-White marriages, the husband is White.

Michael McMillan of St. Louis says because of his complexion, he is frequently mistaken for being White.

“I’ve had people say things to me that were racist and ignorant,” he said. “I’ve heard them call Black people the N-word and say how lazy and stupid they were. I’ve had to tell them that I`m African American and that I take issue with everything they’ve said. A lot of them turn from pale or pink to bright red in embarrassment.”

George E. Curry, former editor-in-chief of Emerge magazine and the NNPA News Service, is a keynote speaker, moderator, and media coach. He can be reached through his Web site, www.georgecurry.com You can also follow him on Twitter.

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Racial Profiling {Biracial Teen}

// November 15th, 2009 // No Comments » // In the News, Social Injustice

The news story I am printing below was in the Denver Post today. The young man is a good friend of my kids. He is also biracial- half black and half white. I was shocked when I read the story, but was sickened as I read the comments. His race was on trial. I know this young man and if these commentors knew who they were talking about, it might change some of what they said…

Racial profiling at Denver Safeway store alleged
By Felisa Cardona – The Denver Post

An African-American teen accused of stealing who was detained and searched by employees at Safeway was a victim of racial profiling, according to an investigation by Denver’s Anti-Discrimination Office.

The agency’s Nov. 5 finding of discrimination says “there is reasonable cause to believe that this is not an isolated incident but rather a pattern or practice of engaging in such racial profiling.”

Brandon Anderson-Thayer, now 18, filed a complaint against Safeway alleging discrimination, and the agency’s finding allows him to proceed with a civil lawsuit, said his attorney, Mari Newman.


“We’ve given Safeway every opportunity to try and figure out whether there is a way to resolve this case and to try to be a good community member, and they have just resisted all the way,” she said.

Safeway contends there is no evidence to support the allegations.

“Our company has a long-standing reputation for fair and unbiased dealings with customers, employees and the communities that we serve,” said Safeway spokeswoman Kris Staaf. “The DADO’s probable-cause determination in this case resulted from an inadvertent failure of the company to respond to a DADO administrative request and is not a finding on the merits.

“Safeway is committed to continuing to defend against the claims made here, as well as continuing our efforts to resolve this matter with the DADO.”

On Oct. 14, 2008, Anderson-Thayer, then 17, went to the Safeway at 1653 S. Colorado Blvd. to buy some snacks after school.

He was with two friends, Hassan Robinson, who is also black, and Joe Vilante, who is Pacific Islander.

Anderson-Thayer was handcuffed by security as he bought some hot chocolate from schoolmate Jessica Molendyk, who was working at a breast-cancer awareness stand to raise money.

“The manager’s only stated reasons for accusing Mr. Anderson-Thayer and his friends of theft were the fact that Mr. Anderson-Thayer and his friends apparently ‘looked suspicious’ and that the manager had problems with ‘kids like them’ in the past,” said a report by Lucía Guzmán, executive director of Human Rights and Community Relations, which oversees DADO.

Molendyk told DADO that Safeway head clerk Brandon Nance directed security guards to follow black teens in the store for no apparent reason and that she often observed Nance making racist jokes.

The teens were not carrying any backpacks that would help them conceal items and they paid for the snacks they had, the report said. For a half-hour, the teens were held in an upstairs office and searched and interrogated, the report said.

“By targeting Mr. Anderson-Thayer and his friends for discriminatory surveillance, search and seizure, Safeway denied the teenagers ‘full and equal enjoyment of the goods, services facilities, privileges, advantages and accommodations’ of Safeway,” wrote Guzmán.

DADO does not issue fines or sanctions against a business when there is a finding of discrimination.

The goal of the agency is to bring the parties together to come to a settlement or a resolution. If it can’t be worked out, legal action may be pursued by the person who filed the complaint, Guzmán said.

The finding said that Anderson-Thayer’s testimony is “credible” and that the affidavits filed by his two friends and Molendyk corroborate his statements.

Representatives from Safeway met twice with DADO and Anderson-Thayer for mediation but no significant progress was made, the report said.

When Safeway’s attorney was contacted for a third meeting, the company did not respond.

However, Safeway is still trying to resolve the case and is expected to continue to provide information to the agency even though deadlines were missed.

Guzmán said the discrimination finding does not mean a solution can’t be worked out.

“Our major work is the hope that resolution occurs,” she said, “and we will always stand ready to help facilitate positive resolutions.”

COMMENTS ON THE NEWSPAPERS WEBSITE-

There has to be more to this story, it just doesn’t jive as written. And look at the picture of the kid…he looks white!

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The fact that they didn’t catch him means they are bad at their jobs. You can’t detain people and put people in handcuffs when they haven’t stolen anything. This kid is playing victim and looking for a quick payday and the Post looks like they are going to help him.

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Good for Safeway. This defense for breaking the law is perposterous. I’m going to start shopping at Safeway as long as they keep racially profiling

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This has nothing to do with the kid’s rights or profiling. It’s all about money. If Safeway had given the kid a nice settlement to go away, we’d be hearing nothing about racial profiling “blah, blah, blah…” and he’d be over at the Best Buy picking out a new iPod and Stereo Speakers for his car like any teen would.

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It’s the old “Jessie Jackson (Operation Push) shake down” Works every time.

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im saying is that if the guy in that photo claims he was racially profiled because he is black…well then he has no case because he isnt black.

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that kid is white as white gets! Let me guess, he probably listens to rap and has saggy pants, so he calls himself black…uh…sorry, African American. If he is from South Africa I’ll give him this one!

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i`m looking into my crystal ball…i see it ..still fuzzy.. i see an..escalade in someones future!

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And Brandon’s mother must have read this all and responded-

I am Brandon’s mom. He did not steal (nor has he ever stolen) and the actual stated reason, according to witnesses, why they were followed was because the security (a private firm, not DPD) had been instructed to follow all African-Americans. They were followed from the time they entered the store. He was handcuffed (in front of a friend no less-humiliating) and held for at least a half hour. He was a minor and I was never notified. If that happened to your child, would you just let it go? The stress sent him into an epileptic seizure when he got home (a pre-existing condition). Brandon and his friends have shopped there since all of their lives; it is our “neighborhood” store.

How should they have behaved? They were dressed like most men under 30, they had no backpacks and they paid for everything…. and they were still in the store, buying hot chocolate from a Breast Cancer Awareness fundraiser, hardly a action buy someone trying to hide something.

To clarify a few points, he chooses how he wants to be identified, as an African-American. We took this to the city because we want the store to change their policy and become more sensitive in how they treat the community. We took it public because the community needs to understand that, even though it is 2009, these things still happen on a regular basis. Most of what we were asking for was that they make amends and form relationships with the African-American community and the school that the kids attend (which is predominately minority and where the kids often come to shop). No Escalade for this family.

Unless you are a minority in this city, you are probably not aware of how young minority males are profiled on a regular basis. I see this happening in the community all of time. This was not the first time for Brandon or his friends to be profiled for “walking while black” and for these young people, it forces them into a position of always having to be on the defense. We are here to say, “ENOUGH”!

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Murdered: Marine SGT Jan Pawel Pietrzak wife Quiana Jenkins-Pietrzak

// November 15th, 2009 // 3 Comments » // In the News, Social Injustice

Janek and Quiana Pietrzak began dating in May 2006… Janek was a Marine who had attained the rank of Sergeant and Quiana had ambitions of becoming a doctor. They were married in August 2008. All of their dreams would be stifled as they were murdered two months later by four fellow marines who couldn’t accept interracial marriage.

This is a tribute in honor of this beautiful young couple…

This Week’s Twitter Chats

// November 15th, 2009 // No Comments » // Blended Living

Love is Beautiful!

// November 9th, 2009 // No Comments » // Love and Happiness

Seal and Heidi Klum’s newest addition to the family turns one month old today… Seal released a statement the day after the couple’s fourth child was born last month, saying:

It’s difficult to imagine loving another child as much as you love your existing children. Anyone who has a family will tell you this. Where will one find that extra love? If you love your existing children with all your heart, how can one possibly find more heart with which to love another?

On Friday, Oct. 9, 2009, at 7:46 p.m., the answer to this question came in the form of our fourth child and second daughter. Lou Sulola Samuel was born. From the moment she looked into both of our eyes, it was endless love at first sight. She is beautiful beyond words and we are happy that she chose us to watch her grow over the coming years.”

Their baby girl, Lou Samuel, was born on October 9 and is the younger sister of her beautiful siblings Johan, 2, Henry, 4, and Leni, 5.

Congratulations to Seal, Heidi, Johan, Henry, and Leni…
and HAPPY {one month} BIRTHDAY to baby Lou!

Unfortunately, no baby pictures just yet, but here’s some photos of the beautiful family:

This Week’s Twitter Chats

// November 8th, 2009 // No Comments » // Blended Living

  • @vickikelley Oh no!! I hope no one is hurt! :( ~Kat {@katjrobertson} in reply to vickikelley #
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  • Interesting question raised by tweeters 2day: If it were up 2 voters, not the Supreme Court n 1967, could IR couples legally marry 2day? Hmm #
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  • @TiaMowry It's pretty sad what mainstream media does to the image of family, isn't it? The whole idea becomes a huge joke… in reply to TiaMowry #
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  • @RashadHouston Noooo… keep it positive. Do YOU… never compromise for anything. Too much compromise going on in music as it is!! Be real. in reply to RashadHouston #
  • @RashadHouston I write/sing also http://bit.ly/1X7rdv Shortly after I recorded "The Truth" I found out we were expecting our 5th kid. Delay. in reply to RashadHouston #
  • @iluvblackwomen Have a good one! Hope tomorrow is shorter for you :) in reply to iluvblackwomen #
  • @RashadHouston Thanks :) haha I've always wanted to do something with this voice – family first tho. I'm only 26, so plenty of time :) in reply to RashadHouston #
  • "Long as they keep it in the ghetto, *they* look the other way, but when it spills into the suburbs, it's an *epidemic*…" {@katjrobertson} #
  • "Our children become their environments, then society has the nerve to judge the way they live." {@katjrobertson} #
  • "Nooses hanging in a tree is just kids pranking, but getting FOOD is looting – y'all remember Katrina." {@katjrobertson} #
  • "Where exactly do our morals come from? Evaluate yourself and you'll see what's going on…" {@katjrobertson} #
  • "Our society is twisted in beliefs it holds – we supply other nations while OUR children starve." {@katjrobertson} #
  • "Just because we've been through integration doesn't mean there's equality in occupation." {@katjrobertson} #
  • RT @RashadHouston: @katjrobertson He was born 3 months premature at 1 lb. 12 oz. Here's the video: http://bit.ly/4lzUKn <— Awesome vid!! #
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  • Don't 4get 2 visit our network! Topic just published: THANKFUL… (http://trim.su/1TZ8} by Kat Robertson! #
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  • @TheRealJordin Awesome – and it all blended beautifully :) Celebrate diversity! http://interracialfamily.org in reply to TheRealJordin #
  • @TheRealJordin My kids r listening 2 Battlefield on the radio & going crazy. "She's biracial," they're saying LOL Ur A-rated age 4-age 27 :) #
  • I'm praying 4 the U.S. Soldiers lost & injured today @ Fort Hood & 4 their families. My heart is w/ u all. {RT via @RashadHouston} #
  • RT @RashadHouston: LOL Omari playing with his spoon http://twitpic.com/oi4e9 <—-That is precious!!! #
  • @AnalauraLaughs I think every1 has at 1 point known the feeling of looking UP 2 see the bottom. Never give up – keep pressing. Change comes. in reply to AnalauraLaughs #
  • Don't 4get 2 visit our network! Topic just published: Bill of Rights for Racially Mixed People (http://trim.su/1W5m} by Laura! #
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Yes, We Can. Yes, We Did.

// November 4th, 2009 // No Comments » // In the News

A year ago today, our nation voted a new president into office – a biracial president who symbolizes the culmination of years of civil rights activism paired with the love of two cultures and the proof that the blending of two ethnic backgrounds can – and has – contributed monumentally to our nation. The community of interracial families stood that evening in awe as the results were realized, each parent looking at their child and thinking, “Our president looks like you…

This historic victory was an amazing one. Regardless of whether you are democrat or republican, I think we can all agree that it was a relief to recognize the changes that have taken place in America. We’re not where we would want to be… we are still discriminated against; we are still challenged… and we still face much opposition, but despite the ignorance that plagues the small southern minds of our country, we are moving in the right direction.

Congratulations to President Barack Obama on his One Year anniversary as President of the United States of America.

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Justice of the Peace Resigns Over Interracial Marriage Dispute

// November 4th, 2009 // 2 Comments » // Blended Living, In the News, Social Injustice

Justice Keith Bardwell was forced into the spotlight in Hammond, LA last month when his wife, Beth Bardwell, informed Beth Humphrey, a white woman in south Louisiana, that her husband would not perform her marriage ceremony because her fiance was black. Although Beth and her new husband, Terence McKay, did end up getting married by another Justice of the Peace three days later, the damage had been done – the couple’s eyes had been opened to a pain all to familiar to interracial couples: the pain of rejection and disapproval. However, in this case, despite the strength and class exhibited by the McKays, the Justice would soon find the damage he had done to himself to be irreparable. News of the case traveled at the speed of light as Twitter and Facebook buzzed about the issue and the outrage spread like wildfire.

Beth and Terence McKay have done countless interviews and have undoubtedly been through an enormous amount of undue stress simply as a result of seeking out a Justice to validate their marriage under the law. As Bardwell came to his own defense, not issuing an apology or a justifiable response to the accusations, he admitted recusing himself from the duty of performing their ceremony based on his own personal prejudices toward interracial couples which he claimed stem from what he considers to be the widely acknowledged belief that children born into interracial marriages suffer as a result of their multicultural heritage and the inability of society to accept them. He went on to say that in his experience, interracial couples do not last and for those two reasons, he “didn’t want to do that to the children” born to these couples in the future.

Since the story initially broke – having blown up the news and social media alike causing a windstorm of controversy which peaked around the 15th of October – the Justice has officially resigned his position. In speaking to CNN affiliate WBRZ, he stated, “I needed to step down because they was going to take me to court, and I was going to lose. I would probably do the same thing again [ ... ] I found out I can’t be a justice of the peace and have a conscience.” Let’s just take a moment to examine the word “conscience” which is defined as being the moral sense, or that capacity of our mental constitution, by which we irresistibly feel the difference between right and wrong. Conscience is a part of our personal mental constitution. Apparently, the Justice failed to realize that HIS constitution has absolutely nothing to do with the Constitution that protects us ALL as individuals. The constitution of the United States is very clear and does not allow open interpretation in regards to IT’S views on marriages like that of the McKays which involve more than one ethnic background. The Supreme court ruled on this in 1967, stating:

Marriage is one of the “basic civil rights of man,” fundamental to our very existence and survival…. To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State’s citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discrimination. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State.

I am ecstatic that he resigned. However, I am appalled at the comment he made about there being a war between his position as justice of the peace and his position as a morally sound, ethically conscious individual. Does he REALLY think he was acting out of integrity? I have to say that it’s scary to admit to myself there are still people in this world who are in such strong opposition of interracial families to go as far a to break the LAW to prevent themselves from having to partake in “doing” such a disservice to the children involved. That’s IF I choose to entertain the notion that he was genuinely concerned for ‘the children,’ which I do not.

That’s just sick.

And it shows that we have such a long way to go, still…

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